My 3 Keys
Key #1: Mindset â Frequency First (Conscious + Subconscious)
Your frequency speaks before you do. The fundamentals (tuning-fork thinking, dropping judgment, and honoring the three planesâspiritual, mental, physical) are the base. But most people miss the driver under the hood: the subconscious mind. It runs your automatic emotions, habits, and perceptionsâeven when youâre not âtrying.â If the subconscious is programmed with fear, lack, or pessimism, it will quietly broadcast that reality on loop.
Program the subconscious on purpose
- Feed it images & scripts: Vision boards and affirmations prime your baseline. Repetition + emotion = installation.
- Guard your input diet: TV, timelines, and talk shape your inner code. Doomscrolling = low-frequency programming.
- Break the autopilot: Do different things. Novelty forces presence, and presence lets you emit a new signal.
- Use âfresh startâ energy: Treat new weeks/months like the first day of schoolâreset, reorganize, re-identify.
- Audit your circle: Frequency is contagious. Distance yourself from chronic pessimism.
Key #2: A Plan â Logic & Emotion Moving Together
Belief needs evidence. A simple plan gives your logical brain something solid to hold while your emotional body amplifies the feeling. Example: for weight loss, commit to 45 minutes of walking before breakfast. Each completed walk becomes proof youâre living the new reality. Your logic relaxes (âthis makes senseâ), and your emotions commit (âthis is already who I amâ).
How to make plans that anchor belief
- Make it specific: âWalk 45 minutes at 7:00 AMâ beats âexercise more.â
- Make it measurable: Track reps, minutes, or sessionsâevidence fuels belief.
- Make it rhythmic: Repeat at the same time/place to teach your nervous system the new baseline.
- Pair with identity talk: âIâm the kind of person whoâŠâ (identity > outcome).
- Stack quick wins: Small proofs compound into unshakable certainty.
Key #3: Resourcefulness â The Finesse Factor
When logic hits a wall, creativity opens a door. Resourcefulness is asking, âWhatâs the smartest way to get this done?â Example: instead of paying $1,500 for six weeks of training locally, hire a skilled trainer abroad for a fraction of the price and keep the same accountability. The result is the same (or better), the path is lighter.
How to practice resourcefulness
- Redefine constraints: If the door is locked, find a window, ladder, or new address.
- Leverage global talent: Coaching, design, tutoringâgo worldwide and compare value.
- Automate & delegate: Use AI and simple tools to remove friction and context-switch pain.
- Design for accountability: Book sessions/meetings so âshowing upâ becomes the easiest option.
- Assume solvability: Every problem has an X. Solve for it, donât stare at it.
Experiments that Illustrate Mind â Perception â Experience
These examples show how expectation, attention, and belief shape what we notice and how we experience reality:
- Quantum Double-Slit (Observer Effect): Measuring âwhich pathâ a particle takes changes the outcomeâobservation alters behavior at microscopic scales.
- âLucky vs. Unluckyâ Newspaper Test (Wiseman): People who identified as lucky noticed the big printed answer early; the unlucky, locked into counting, missed it. Mindset filters perception.
- Chicks + Random Robot (Peocâh): A robot set to random drifted toward imprinted chicks over trialsâliving attention can bias apparent randomness.
- Hotel Maids Exercise Mindset: Believing their work counted as exercise improved health markersâframing shifted physiology.
- Invisible Gorilla (Inattentional Blindness): Focused attention made many miss a person in a gorilla suitâwhat you look for determines what you see.
- Wine + Price Labels (Marketing Placebo): The same wine tasted âbetterâ (and showed more reward activation) when labeled expensiveâexpectation changed experience.
Sources (YouTube âą papers)
Experiment | YouTube (short) | Paper / Official Write-up |
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Double-Slit (Observer Effect) | Dr. Quantum (~5 min) | Tonomura et al., 1989, Am. J. Phys. · PDF |
âLucky vs. Unluckyâ Newspaper (Wiseman) | The Science of Luck | Wiseman, The Luck Factor (PDF) |
Chicks + Random Robot (RenĂ© Peocâh) | Overview clip | Jahn (2008) review citing Peocâh 1995 · Peocâh, 1995, JSE (index) |
Hotel Maids Exercise Mindset (Crum & Langer) | Short explainer | Psychological Science, 2007 · PDF |
Invisible Gorilla (Simons & Chabris) | Original test (~1 min) | Perception, 1999 |
Wine + Price Labels (Plassmann et al.) | Pricing effect explainer | PNAS, 2008 · Free full text · Caltech write-up |
Closing Reflection
Iâve tried it allâastrology, numerology, crystals, diets. Some built discipline, but the deepest truth is this: frequency trumps logic. People with worse resumes still land bigger roles because their energy walks in first. Guard your subconscious, build a plan your logical mind respects, and get relentlessly resourceful. Thatâs how you stop wishingâand start winning.